Rushton Family

Rushton Family

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Many, many miracles Abbey's letter May 20, 2014

Lacey has set a baptismal date for June 7th!!!!!!! We had our lesson with her on Thursday and we taught the Word of Wisdom, and we talked about those things that she would need to give up. Without hesitation she said that she would do it. We extended the invitation for her to be baptized on June 7th or June 14th and she wants to do it as soon as possible. So June 7th is the day!!!!!!! Her husband has not been supportive of her joining the church at all. And a few days before our meeting with her. They got in a really big fight and she threw down the ultimatum. She told him that he doesn't have to like the church, investigate it or join it, but that he will come to church with her and the kids and he will spend the day with them as a family. She also informed him that she was going to give up alcohol so that he needed to as well. lol She didn't leave him any choice. She is quite the girl. So needless to say he will not be drinking anymore, which will solve a lot of the problems in their home, and they will be coming to church as a family. That was a tender mercy and an answer to our prayers. It makes me so happy to imagine them all coming to church as a family. They will be our first family coming to the branch, with both parents and kids. She has come a long way and such a light has come into her. She said that she used to be really liberal when it came to religion and when she first started to look into the church it all seemed a little hokey. But she told us with tears in her eyes on Thursday, that when they say that we can all be forgiven of our sins that its real. The atonement is real. We really are spirit children of God and its not just a nice story, its real. As missionaries we can try and try to explain our feelings and beliefs and try to help them be as real for them as they are for us. But, it won't mean anything to them until they allow themselves to be taught by the spirit. This work really is not ours but the Lord's. She said that she is so excited and so ready to start a new life. Sweet Lacy:) We had FHE that night after our meeting. And the whole group was talking about her baptism. And Tim looked and her and said that we were all really proud of her. And that Satan might pick on her a little more before her baptism. He looker her straight in the eye and said he didn't have to worry about you before, because he had you. But now you are a follower of the Lord and he is very aware of that. He promised her that we were all here for her and to come to him if she ever had any doubts. He said consider me your Dad. I love our little group!!!!!!!!!! There was such a peace in that room. And everything is going to be just fine:) There are many great things about to happen here. Chelsie told Lacy that she was the first one to be baptized on the island and it was fun to watch her reaction. Chelsie said, "yea your a pretty big deal." Lacy has agreed to let all of the members invite friends to the Baptism, which will be a big step for people here to get to see and lds baptism. So we will have the whole service on the beach and then she will receive the Holy Ghost the next day in church. The elders are coming this weekend to do her baptismal interview! 
Lacy and Chelsie are working with their friend Celeste to share the gospel with her. Chelsie called us on Tuesday and told us that Celeste asked if she could come to church with them. And she is planning to come next week. Sweet Chelsie has such a strong testimony. She told us that on Sunday she was fasting for her husband and felt really strongly that as long as she was a good member missionary and helped bring her friends to the gospel that it would all work out. Her husband, Ozni has been giving her a lot of rap lately about her activity in the church. It makes it hard on her but she is strong. I feel like the more he can see a little light in the church the more he pushes away. So we just keep praying for them. 
Yesterday we dropped by Tim and Lorraine's and she told us about her son on a mission. And how him and his new companion promised the Lord that they would be exactly obedient. And every day that week they had miracles and were able to find new people to teach. So Sister Malolo Vaai and I decided last night that we would do our best to be exactly obedient in everything. And just this morning we were walking to the Library and this girl passes us on her bike. We had met her in the library last week but hadn't gotten her information. She has been here on the island for a few months and we had talked about religion and what we believe and had invited her to church. But unfortunately neither one of us had known the address to the church. So we had been praying that we would see her again. And we saw her this morning right by our house. She was looking for her now job that she just got yesterday. We exchanged numbers and she wants to meet with us. It was a tender mercy. 
This weekend was Stake Conference. They had asked all of the missionaries to be there, so we were off island from Saturday afternoon until Sunday night. It was a little weird to be there without any of the members of our group. We were excited to be back with them. This morning our mission had a video conference with President Packard. He wanted to prep us for our mission conference with Elder Holland on Friday. He reminded us what a blessing it is that he is going to spend 3 hours with just us missionaries. He told us to come with questions and a prayer that they will be answered. 
I love the island, and our little group. It is starting to get busier with tourists. Yesterday we were walking around a lot of the wealthier homes, and they are huge. Its nuts. Rosie lives at one of those houses because she is the housekeeper. She lives quite a ways away from us but we had some time yesterday and decided to go see her. So we left our house an 3 o clock and started to walk. We took a wrong turn and didn't realize it until we hit a dead end. So we turned around and kept going. We got to her home at our 5:30 and visited for a while. When we got to her home we were so tired. My companion tripped up the front step to her house, lol. So we visited and let me tell ya she was worth the walk. She is such a sweet lady and is so lonely. Then we walked home and arrived at about 8:45. We were really tired when we got home but walking home I was the happiest that I have been in a while. We are a little sore today but it was a good walk. It reminds me to be grateful that I am not a pioneer:) 
I had a realization this week that I felt like I should share. This last transfer President Packard asked us to the study the atonement in the BOM, so it was on my mind. And I was thinking about my experience with Sister Klecker. Ever since I was her companion I have had this sad feeling that I was not able to help her. She was really sick the last week we were together, and she had some low moments. I have never seen anyone that low before. She was in so much pain physically and emotionally. It was really early one morning and she hadn't been able to fall asleep yet. She was crying and was pouring her soul out to me, about everything she felt. And I was crying. And she looked at me and she said that my life had been so easy and I had no idea what she was going through. And my life has been really easy for the most part. And at that moment I wanted nothing more than to know what she was going through and to be able to console her. But nothing I said or did helped. And at a low moment I remember asking the Lord, why my life had been so easy and why I wasn't able to help her or to console her. I was angry and sad and confused and blamed myself. And wanted nothing more that for her to not be in so much pain emotionally. I remember feeling so unhelpful and powerless as her companion. Because I wasn't able to fix her problems or make them any better. It was the next night that President decided she needed to be emergency transferred so she could get away from all of the things that she was allergic to, and within a few days she was gone. I have done a lot of reflecting on that since then. And on Friday night I feel like I came to understand the atonement in a whole different way. We all experience different trials in this life and there is no way that we can ever know exactly what someone is feeling. We will never know their pain or their sorry or their fears. The only one who will ever know that is our Savior Jesus Christ. It is foolish of us to think that we can fix all of the problems in this world. That is for the Savior. He knows exactly what Sister Klecker was going through, and I had no idea. And that is ok. That is why we have our Savior and that is why we need him so much. We can have empathy and love for others but our Savior Jesus Christ is the only one who can heal. At that point in her life Sister Klecker didn't need me she needed the Savior. I feel like part of my nature is I want to fix people problems. But the best thing that we can do for someone is to turn them to the Savior. I am coming to understand my Savior in a more personal way as I use the atonement in my own life. It is through Him that we triumph over our struggles and are changed. 
Thank you so much for all that you do for me. Life sure is wonderful! And the church is true. I hope you are all enjoying this beautiful summer. I love you
Love Sister Abbey Lou Rushton 

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