Rushton Family

Rushton Family

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Abbey's letter June 24, 2014

This week I had a thought. That I am on an island for a Summer. And even though I am a missionary I can still appreciate it. So I decided to look around me and to take it all in. And all in all it made me really happy. It is getting really warm here and starting to get pretty crowded. Everyone seems really happy, which is nice. Every one always seems to be having a good time. The harbor is starting to become full of boats. This island is unique because it is very New England. All the houses are made out of wood and weather in the sun which makes them gray. I was a little sad when i got here and all the houses were gray but I have grown to love it. Everyone is always eating ice cream. And a lot of the men here where pink, pants, Capri, and shorts exc. Which here is considered very manly. Kind of threw me off just a bit. There are no stop lights. There is a lot of diversity here. You have people that are well off who vacation for the summer. Then you have all of the wonderful people here who work multiple jobs to support their families back home and to make life enchanting for the people who vacation here. There are many people from Jamaica, El Salvador, The Dominican, and Bulgaria. Many of them ride the buses so we have gotten to meet a lot of them. I love these people! 
It has been an interesting experience serving here. There are times when I have felt less like a missionary because we are often scrounging around for something to do. And times when I have felt more like a missionary than I ever have. In both my past areas there had been missionaries there forever so most of the people where familiar with who you are. But since missionaries are a new thing here there are many who do not understand our purpose, and can not understand why we would ever choose to serve a mission. So it has been a good reminder to be proud of who I am and the gospel that I represent. And to show people that as we are talking to them. We get asked many questions. We have met a lot of people that thought we were paid to do this, or were forced to do it, or if we did it our schooling would be paid for. Many people can not fathom the idea that we are on an island but never go swimming. My companion got asked out on a date the other day by a man who she had met with her companion while contacting before I got here. He called the other day and wanted to take her out on a date. We explained that we were missionaries and could meet to talk about the gospel but, no Sister Vaai could not go out to dinner with him. He never called us back to set up a time to meet:) It was pretty funny. 

I love the group here. I have never experienced anything quite like and don't know if I ever will again. There is such a spirit here. I am certain that I want to stay in contact with all of them for the rest of my life. We were able to talk to Lacy this Thursday. We had texted her the day before and she texted us Thursday night. We knew that she was not at home because she is not able to have her phone on at the shelter for safety reasons. She said that things were rough and she asked if we could call her. We called her and she was at the emergency room with Angie her oldest daughter. She has Autism and has had severe physical outbreaks since they have moved off island. Many times a day Lacy will have to hold her down so she doesn't hurt herself. It got worse so Lacy took her to the hospital. They were there all night and into the next day but she was able to get in home therapy for Angie. Lacy had researched where the church is in her area since we are not allowed to know where she lives. So she is planning to go to church. So proud of her for doing it all on her own. Shows that she really wants this. Turns out that her branch just got sister missionaries last week. Which is a miracle in itself considering Lacy's situation. I really feel that those sister missionaries were sent there just for her. I have found out a little more about her past this week. It broke my heart. She has been asked to go through more in this life than I could fathom. Which has left her pretty scared and not feeling worthy for baptism. But the man who is doing her interview, President Haight, did the interviews for Anne Marie, Marilene, Raquel, and Chryss in Billerica. And all of them had things in there past and when they walked out of their interview you could see that a weight had been lifted off of their shoulders and they knew that the past was the past. The Lord had forgiven them and is aware of them and they are worthy for baptism. I can't wait for Lacy to have her interview. So that she can feel that peace that she has never had. To know that the Gospel of Jesus Christ is for her. She is so humble. I really want to be just like her. 

Patrick and Kathleen are doing well. We are still trying to get in their home to read scriptures with them. And we are trying to be very creative to figure out how to get them married. Kathleen's daughter Grace came to FHE this week so I finally got to meet her:) She is so cute. I can't wait till she gets back from her summer camp in a few weeks so that we can start doing YW with her again. Celeste came to FHE on Wednesday and stayed for a long time! She also came to church on Sunday. She is still just curious and not sure she wants to take the lessons but we are going to start teaching her husband English this week which is exciting!  It has been a slow week with the rest of our investigators and potentials because everyone is so busy. But we are hoping to have more success this week. 

I feel like our mission has kind of had a shift for the better since Elder Holland came. Things seem to picking up. President has done a lot of training on things that are really hard. Like seeking daily inspiration through prayer. I have come to realize that receiving eternal life through our Savior Jesus Christ requires prayer and seeking. We can't get to live back with God if we don't seek out his will through prayer. And it is hard. I have really struggled with it. But there is a reason why we have to work for it and why it doesn't come easy. Because we are trying to seek out God in a world that is so far from him. And its a foreign concept. We have to believe that he'll answer. We have to be humble to pour out our souls to him and ask for his guidance. Our hearts have to be ready to act on what ever the Lord tells us to do. Which can sometimes be a scary thought. President told us that him trying to seek daily inspiration through his prayers started on his mission, and he has never stopped. And I can tell that the man he is today and the way his life has been guided is because of that. He always says that the gospel is work. We can not be stagnant we have to work for it. I am really trying hard to be attentive when I pray. To make sure that I am praying to God and trying to have a conversation rather that just stating my prayer to be done. I know that all of our actions are effected by prayer. I still can't say a prayer until about an hour after I wake up because I know that I will fall asleep:) But I am trying. 

I have realized on my mission, how much I have to work on. And it makes me excited. I know that if we are looking for them the Lord will always give us spiritual experiences to help us progress. You don't have to go on a mission for that to happen. But I know that for me, my mission has been my saving grace. It kind of woke me up to show me what life is all about. And for that I am grateful. I know that this is the Lord's gospel on the earth. I know that he lives and we are powerless with out him. I sure love my family and I hope that you are all doing well. Have a wonderful week. 

Love Sister Abbey Lou Rushton 

No comments: